November 2009
14 posts
Why do people stay in a relationship that is not healthy? Esp when it is full of emotional blackmail and deceit.
Some are completely delusional when they claim that they and their partner is totally honest and upfront…nothing is hidden.
Do you know what i say to that esp when I witness arguing and whining? They lie…because they wouldn’t be arguing if it was all open.
Wake...
The past few days have been interesting. As a parent, you struggle within to make sure your kids are heading in a direction that they will not get hurt but sometimes they choose poorly and you want to make it right again.
However, how can they ever learn to deal with life situations if there is no challenge?
Forr went thru a very hard lesson on Thanksgiving but this morning as i washed dishes,...
Hmmmm....
I cannot share how disappointed I am and how much I have to bite my tongue in talking to my son.
Well, its more of a lecture because although he believes he has more freedom…he has actually made himself a prisoner. I have yet to see initiative and drive to pull his weight. But, all I see is a carefree, devil may care attitude of how he is living.
How much time will he realize that he...
Wondering
My son said the darndest thing…thanking us for allowing him to visit us.
??? what the? It breaks my heart because he knows very well (at least i hope he does) that door is open for him.
Afternoon thoughts
Afternoon thoughts as I look out my office window and notice the traffic..ugh
Today is my wedding anniversary but we are so busy that I decided to have us go on a date on the weekend (sometime soon).
Does that make us horrible as a couple? No, I don’t think so… it was a mutual agreement and I know we love eachother.
Anyhow, I better close up and head home…
Ending a day on a...
A Weekend to Remember
This past weekend was a blessing esp because our son visited for the weekend.
I think he gained weight, his brothers (and himself) say otherwise!
At least, he is eating and taking care of himself physically.
My prayer is he begins to take care of himself spiritually (relationship w/ God).
All in all, it was a blessing to spend time with him.
Wish I could...
sing! Here I am sitting in a karaoke room for the Young Adult fellowship and I am wishing I was talented (vocally).
I think if I start singing…everyone would throw char siu @ me :P
Wish I could...
sing! Here I am sitting in a karaoke room for the Young Adult fellowship and I am wishing I was talented (vocally).
I think if I start singing…everyone would throw char siu @ me :P
Weird Quiz...
Your mermaid species is: Tiger Cape
Her Latin name is: Tigris Capenus
Characteristic wide horizontal brown and yellow-pink bands ring the tail and torso of the Tigris. This type of colouring acts as a warning to predators: this subspecies is known for its sharp teeth and dangerous nature.
Populates both the Cape of Good Hope and Cape Horn - being particularly at home in rough seas and violent...
Weekends
On weekdays, my alarm is set for 4:00am but weekends-i am able to set my alarm @ a later time such as 5:30 depending if we have to be @ the twin’s football game, family, or church function.
However, this my problem…my body is used to waking up @ 4:00am…which means I don’t wake up @ the later times I set the alarm clock for!
AND on weekdays? I do not want to wake up @...
Weekend Busyness
There hasn’t been a weekend that i haven’t been able to lie around and do nothing. I enjoy the weekends though because its family time as well as church! i’m bored right now—-i think i’ll read a book. ciao
He who will not reason is a bigot; he who cannot is a fool; and he who dares not...
– ~William Drummond, Academical Questions
Staring out the window...
So, my mind is wandering around right now…browsing through one topic then to another. Flitting to the importance from the highest to the least…
I think the least is my work, which I know I will finish by the end of the day but my thoughts are on my son…
I am wondering how was I at the age of 18…did I resent my parents that much on their direction and instructions? I...